“The dog has seldom been successful in pulling man up to its level of sagacity, but man has frequently dragged the dog down to his.”
― James Thurber
The dog in the above photo is making it difficult to focus on this post… here’s my toy! Here’s my toy! Here’s my toy! Anyways, I’m quite happy for her to be doing so. Her life has changed tenfold. Really for her to change so fast and adapt so quickly has been a miracle. Subsequently, the above dog came from an abusive home.
“There is something stronger then a choke collar and an alpha wolf and its called a team” – Sylvia Trkman
In today’s society, we expect the world from our companions. We are told to be “the alpha” and have total domination over them. But what are we to expect when the world is bombarded with such harsh rules? We are told time and time again that this is the only way to have a “good dog”. This is not the relationship I want with any of my dogs; I want a relationship of student/teacher. I want them to look at me for guidance and to be assured that I will do what is best for them. When you give dogs choice and loving guidance they are more willing to listen to you than resent you. This is really a fundamental idea. Nobody likes to feel below anyone else; Everyone strives for equality.
“He said, “People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life – like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?” The Six-year-old continued, “Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don’t have to stay as long.”
Because of positive training and understanding a dog who had never played with toys and resented any negative associations, hasn’t stopped wagging her tail since the day she came HOME.
Optimism is the key to success.
-Alyssa, Katie, Envy and Razzle Spazzle.